Million Dollar Weekend, Solve Your Own Problems

What is one thing this morning that irritated me? What is one thing on my to-do list that's been there over a week? What is one thing that I regularly fail to do well? What is one thing I wanted to buy recently only to find out that no one made it?
Use the questions to find three ideas. 
  1. One-stop Responsible Recycling/Junk Removal service 
  2. Temporary/Expiring Power of Attorney 
  3. Mobile notary public 

One-stop Responsible Recycling/Junk Removal service

As I declutter my apartment, I've found places can take some, but not all, of the recyclable items I have.

Staples can take my old laptop and desktop computers, but not my TV.

The Lower East Side Ecology Center can take e-waste, but not media like cassettes or VHS tapes.

I have to wait for Dept. of Sanitation events (or get a ride to an out-of-the-way Dept. of Sanitation warehouse) to get rid of household cleaning products or thermometers or certain kinds of prescription medications.  

It would be great if I could give all this stuff to someone and at the end receive some kind of documentation that the stuff didn't just go into a landfill.

Temporary/Expiring Power of Attorney

The IRS was supposed to send us a refund check, but it never arrived.

I would love for someone else to be able to call the IRS on my behalf and resolve the issue.

Mobile notary public

A notary public who could come to my home and notarize a document. This could be for elderly people, or anyone else who is homebound. 

I know of a service that can do this remotely, but it still feels like a lot of friction.

Maybe what I really need is an...

Annoying Admin Problem Solver

Personal assistant, executive assistant, man-with-a-van, bureaucracy wrangler...all in one person or service.

Million Dollar Weekend, Top Three Groups

Who do you have easy access to that you'd be EXCITED to help? This can be your neighbors, colleagues, religious friends, golf buddies, cooking friends, etc.

This question assumes I actually go out and do things with people, or hang out with people on the internet!

I had a tough time with this question.

I don't feel like I have "easy access" to specific communities like "golf buddies."

I go to a gym that is focused on one-on-one personal training.

I do yoga by watching yoga videos on YouTube.

I do interval training (walk 40 seconds, run 20 seconds) around my neighborhood by myself, not with a running group.

I'm a caregiver for my Mom, but I'm not part of an in-person caregiver support group or caregiver online forum.

I don't want to get stuck on this question (no overthinking!), so I went through my notes and picked three groups where I felt a buzz of energy:

  • Short men who are fat, yet need/want to be presentable
  • Single men who are in their late 40s/early 50s with little dating experience
  • Caregivers for parents with Alzheimer's/dementia

I am, or have been, a member of all three groups.

I don't know how much help I can provide, I don't have obvious connections with others in the same situation, but I understand what people in these groups are going through.

One possibility is content creation (i.e., writing or YouTube) for these groups. Sharing the journey. Struggles, victories, lessons learned along the way.

The exercises coming up in the book should help me generate more ideas.

Million Dollar Weekend, Coffee Challenge

Go to any coffee shop or anyplace in person. Make a simple purchase and ask for 10 percent off. Don't say anything else. The whole point is for you to feel uncomfortable. Commit to doing this today.

As I walked to the coffee shop, I knew I didn't want to spend 30 minutes picking out a muffin.

Get something, then just go for it.

I picked out a little hot dog that didn't require toasting, and got on line.

The customer two spots ahead asked for the bathroom code.

While I was waiting, I saw not one, but two tip jars at the counter.

The staff had no problem asking me for a little extra, so there was no problem with me asking them for a little extra.

I got to the counter.

"Good morning!"

"Do you want anything else?"

"Can I get 10% off?"

"Yes."

"OK!"

I think she either didn't hear my request, or it fried her brain circuits. She didn't change the price on the register. It still showed $3.89.

"10% off?"

It dawned on her that I was asking for a discount.

"No..."

"Can I get 10 percent off because I need 10 percent off?"

"No I can't do that."

I smiled and paid with my $5 bill.

"Can I get it to go?"

That she could do.

I put the change in the tip jar and left with a $5 lesson in asking...and the story for this post.







Million Dollar Weekend, Freedom Number

Start by choosing a short-term monthly revenue goal--your Freedom Number--and make it a number that doesn't scare you.

Today I went through recent bank and credit card transactions to figure out my essential "bare minimum" expenses.

That number was a lot higher than I expected.

This was disheartening, because the number doesn't include expenses which give me a lot of value/pleasure, like a gym membership, eating out, and massages.

I decided to drop the number WAY down.

My Freedom Number is: $49.74/month

Huh?

That's nowhere near $5 million, or $1 million.
       
$49.74 is how much I spend on software every month.

  • Spotify $11.99/month
  • Proton (Mail, VPN) $10.19/month
  • HEY (Email, Calendar) $8.25/month
  • Backblaze $5.41/month
  • Posthaven $5.00/month
  • InMotion Hosting $3.06/month
  • Sublime Text $2.75/month
  • Docubank $1.73/month
  • Standard Notes $1.36/month

It feels attainable.

It's meaningful, not a random number plucked out of thin air.

Most important, it keeps me from getting discouraged and quitting.

Keep moving. Next challenge. Next task.

Million Dollar Weekend, NOW, Not How Challenge

Ask one person you respect for a business idea.

I asked my buddy from college using Noah's script from the book.

(I also threw in a joke about becoming a gigolo - it's our sense of humor.)

My buddy hasn't gotten back to me yet, but I think the point of the challenge is to ask, to act, to get moving.


Million Dollar Weekend, 50 Characters to Earn $1

There's a bonus challenge in the Dollar Challenge:

And while you’re at it, ask me, too! Here’s my venmo/cash app @**** or ****. I may even say yes.

I opened up my Cash app, ready to send a short note to Noah.

I realized I only had a brief subject line to make my pitch.

50 characters.

I went with:

Asking for $1 #thedollarchallenge #prefluencer

One of the later chapters in the book talks about connecting with "prefluencers" -- people who are going to be famous, before they become famous.

I haven't even read that chapter yet, but something in me said to use that hashtag.

Then I got this email:

I was blown away!

Maybe Noah liked the #prefluencer hashtag. 

Or he felt like sending $1 to people with a first name starting with "R."

I'll take it as a vote of confidence, a reminder to ask, and even more encouragement to build my business.

Thanks again, Noah!

Million Dollar Weekend, The Dollar Challenge

The next challenge in Million Dollar Weekend was a bit more challenging:

Ask someone you know for a dollar investment in you and your future business--one measly dollar!

I took a deep breath and sent the request to my cousin Grace. 

Really glad I just went for it and didn't overthink it!

Here's how it went:

Million Dollar Weekend, Contract with Myself

The first Challenge in Million Dollar Weekend is to create a contract with myself.

Contract with Myself

I, Robert Domingo, commit to working toward my dream, having fun throughout the experience, facing my fears, and following every challenge in this book.

My dream outcome after reading Million Dollar Weekend is to create a profitable Million Dollar Business that I'm proud of, that delivers the results that my customers or clients are looking for, that I can eventually sell for USD $5 million or more, securing my financial future.

Date: January 13, 2025

Million Dollar Weekend, Day 1

I'm nervous about putting this on the internet.

This is the start of my journey reading and implementing Noah Kagan's book "Million Dollar Weekend."

I bought the book on July 16, 2024. Read a chapter or two on the subway. The book has been sitting on my desk since then.

Now I'm putting more muscle into it.

Launching my million dollar business is my top Work quarterly goal for 1Q2025.

Today I'm devoting a three-hour block (10 AM to 1 PM) to reading and taking the first few steps, completing the first couple of challenges.

I intend to document the actions I take here on my site.

Why am I nervous?

Noah is going to ask me to do things out of my comfort zone.

I don't want to be judged by people on the internet (though few people will read this at first.)

I feel the weight of many past business failures.

I'm also a bit afraid to succeed -- that it will make my life more stressful and complicated.

My three-hour block starts in two minutes. Let's go!


Being a Man Who's Hard to Kill

My health coach Chris wrote an essay about being a man who's hard to kill.

A man who's hard to kill is resilient, mentally tough, and can withstand adversity.

Looking across the animal kingdom, humans are easy to kill.

No thick skin like a rhinoceros, no sharp teeth like a shark.

But being hard to kill is an irresistible idea.

"Hard to Kill" was a movie starring Steven Seagal, and what man wouldn't want to be an action hero?

How does a regular guy become a man who's hard to kill?

In addition to fundamentals like Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual, I'll add three more categories:
  • Communication & Leadership (Hard to Beat)
  • Privacy & Security (Hard to Find)
  • Money & Options (Hard to Catch)
1) Communication & Leadership (Hard to Beat)

Humans don't have thick skin or sharp teeth, but we have big brains.

Our big brains allow us to work with other humans, build superior technology, and multiply our efforts exponentially.

That's the power of communication and leadership.

Smooth-talking your way out of a sticky situation.

Listening, building rapport, knowing what makes people tick.

Being able to motivate, to persuade, to inspire.

In his book Humans are Underrated, Geoff Colvin argues that in the 21st century humans will prefer to receive empathy, leadership, and storytelling from other humans rather than computers.
 
These may be the most important skills in an age of AI.

If other people want to join you, that makes you hard to beat.

2) Privacy & Security (Hard to Find)

Strong, unique passwords—for everything.

Two-factor authentication on critical accounts like email and banking.

Full-disk encryption on your laptop.

Using end-to-end encrypted messaging instead of regular SMS text messages.

Getting as much information out of the cloud as possible.

Getting your personal information off the internet as much as possible.

Criminals, scammers, and hostile nation-states are looking for easy targets.

Locking down your privacy and security makes you hard to find.

3) Money & Options (Hard to Catch)

Investor and author Codie Sanchez put it this way in a recent interview: "If you have money, you're a lot harder to kill. You're a lot harder to push around."

Skills that are in-demand and allow you to work anywhere you can get a stable high-speed internet connection.

Multiple streams of income, not being dependent on any one customer or client.

Having a cabin in the mountains for when the shit hits the fan.

The apex of this category is having a passport portfolio with permanent residences and citizenships in multiple countries.

As Mindvalley founder Vishen Lakhiani would say, you're "unfuckwithable."

If you have zero savings and five figures of credit card debt, you're easy to kill.

Having money in the bank and options in your pocket makes you hard to catch.

Hard to Kill...and Ready to Die

There's a tension between being Hard to Kill and being Ready to Die.

As all professional athletes know, Father Time is undefeated.

Death is coming for all of us.

But that doesn't mean curling up in the fetal position and giving up without a fight.

This is what poet Dylan Thomas means when he says, "Rage, rage against the dying of the light."

I can be ready to die, but I don't have to make it easy for Death to take me out.